The ups and downs of marriage and commitment are realized as Florence and Chet Keefer recount their marriage to the divorce judge. As the judge attempts to decipher whether or not their love for one another is gone, key moments of their lives together are recalled. Florence and Chet came close to making it big at various times, and suffered when those opportunities were lost. But worst of all was when they lost their oldest child through a freak accident. They deal with all the various frictions and pressures as well as they can, ending up with Florrie returning to work while Chet is recuperating from an injury. When Florrie's prior boss leaves her a lot of money in his will, Chet is concerned about what the context might have been. Their daughter makes them sing the Good Morning song while they're fighting, without any resolution. Things boil to a head, and suddenly everyone they know is weighing in on their relationship, and it seems divorce makes the most sense. After talking it all through with the Judge, they realize some issues have already been resolved. After the judge leaves, Florrie and Chet resolve to try again.
The main way the action in this film happens is by narration, as Florence or Chet describe for the Judge different situations. However as the viewer sees those scenes portrayed in the film, what they are seeing is different from what the narrator is describing. In the case of the story of how they met, what Chet describes is completely different from what is shown happening. '"It so happens I remember it different", Miss Holliday primly says.'
Creative Process
told the Los Angeles Times that he and Ruth Gordon had a different writing process for The Marrying Kind than usual - they worked on it little by little over a period of months. They'd sketch out this or that scene to make a certain point. Then on a train ride they started compiling all their ideas, and found out they had 'far too much' material. '"Sometimes we rewrite each other's stuff," Miss Gordon said, expressionlessly. "Every time I put in what I thought was a great joke, he cut it out." "It wasn't that funny," Kanin said.' Bosley Crowther of The New York Times notes that Miss Gordon and Mr. Kanin successfully convey their moral - 'that the natural and ever-hopeful chase after glittering, material ambition is a wistful and endless dream'.
Critical response
The Marrying Kind received mainly positive reviews. Mae Tinee of the Chicago Tribune described the film as having 'a great many funny situations and some expert dialog', while also capturing perfectly 'the frictions and frustrations which affect a middle class couple in what is aptly described as "a nervous world."' The Deseret News notes the film as 'a heartwarming story of a young couple in love'. Marjory Adams of The Boston Globe positively noted the humor of certain scenes, but stated in conclusion that 'you would never wish to include Miss Holliday and Mr. Ray in your list of acquaintances. They would be too exhausting.' Bosley Crowther of The New York Times remarked on the successful hilarities, and the contrast between moments and the 'bittersweet comprehension of the thorniness of the way that stretches out for two young people after they have taken marriage vows.'
