Matthew Wilkas


Matthew Wilkas is an American New York based theatre and film actor, playwright and reality television personality. He is best known for his lead role as Matt in the 2012 feature film Gayby.

Early life

He grew up in Camden, Maine with his two sisters. When he was 12, his father died. He later went to Boston University on the theater program because they gave him a student-aid package. He later moved to Hartford, Conn. before moving to New York.

Career

Theatre

Wilkas co-wrote with American actor and playwright Mark Setlock titled Pageant Play, a satire about the world of child beauty pageants. The play was produced in July 2008 at the Berkshire Theatre Festival. and in 2012, he was in the stage production replacing main actor Matt Caplan. Wilkas has appeared on stage in a number of acts including Silence! The Musical, The Last Sunday in June, Far and Wide, The Pride etc. He has appeared in the Williamstown Theatre Festival, the Huntington Theatre Company, the Berkshire Theatre Festival, the Rattlestick Playwrights Theater, and The Sundance Theatre Institute, under the direction of Michael Greif, Anna D. Shapiro, Will Frears, Carolyn Cantor, Mark Brokaw, Nicholas Martin, and Trip Cullman.
In 2019 he appeared in the Pasadena Playhouse production of Little Shop of Horrors as the role of Orin Scrivello.

Film and television

His television career started in 2003 with a token role in the TV series Hope & Faith followed by brief appearances in The New Twenty and Ugly Betty. After many small roles on television, in 2012, he had a lead role in the feature film Gayby which debuted at the South by Southwest festival. In the film, Matt a comic book store worker and Jenn a yoga instructor, best friends from college, now single and in their thirties, in agreement with a pact they had made in their youth, decide to have a baby together, even though Jenn is straight and Matt is gay. In 2012, Wilkas and Harris co-won the Award for "Best Acting Ensemble: Feature" during the Ashland Independent Film Festival for their roles in Gayby. The film won a number of other festival awards, named one of the top ten independent films of 2012 by IndieWire, and nominated for an Independent Spirit Award. For his performance in the film, Wilkas was named one of Out magazine's "Out100" and one of the Los Angeles Outfest Film Festival's "Five in Focus".
In 2014, Wilkas appeared in Undateable, an American television sitcom that aired on NBC where he was cast as the character Brett, Justin Kearney's gay friend. He also appeared in a number of shorts including This Bachelorette Party Sucks and Masc Only.
In 2017, he had a lead role in New York Is Dead, a series that he co-wrote and produced. As Felix, he co-stars with Gayby actress Jenn Harris. Also in 2017, he is appearing in a lead role as X in "Boy Culture: The Series", an episodic sequel to the original 2006 LGBT American drama film Boy Culture. A Kickstarter campaign was launched for the production. The series will also include Darryl Stephens, Matthew Crawford, as well as Stephen Guarino and singer Steve Grand.

Personal life

Matthew Wilkas is openly gay. From November 2015 to July 2019, Wilkas was in a relationship with freestyle skiing champion and Olympic athlete Gus Kenworthy. At the 2018 Winter Olympics, in Pyeongchang, South Korea, Wilkas kissed Kenworthy before his qualifying run in the men's slopestyle; the kiss was broadcast on live television and was lauded as being a significant moment in visibility of LGBT+ athletes.

Theatre

YearTitleRoleNotes
2008The New TwentyCruise Guy
2010GaybyMattShort
2011Boys on Film 7: Bad RomanceSamSegment: Curious Thing
2012GaybyMattBased on the 2010 short film of the same name.
2014Top FiveGavin
2015You're Killing MeAndy
2015This Bachelorette Party SucksShort
2016Masc OnlyRyan SchultzShort
2017The MummyReporter
2018Island ZeroTitus
2019Crystal Cliffside for Woke VampiresAzazel Von HeinrichShort

YearTitleRoleNotes
2003Hope & FaithPallbearerEpisode "Remembrance of Rings Past"
2008Ugly BettyWaiterEpisode: "Bad Amanda"
2014LookingBenjaminEpisode: "Looking for Now"
2014Saint FrancisGregTV movie
2015, 2017EastSidersKevinEpisodes: "Sex Therapy", "Thick Like a Lotion" and "Priscilla"
2017HiatusMatt the TrainerEpisode: "The Rebirth"
2017New York Is DeadFelix6 episodes
2018–19Matt and DanVarious charactersLead role with Daniel Vincent Gordh
2019BondingRolphEpisodes: "Old Friends, New Names", "Pete Shy" and "Double Date"
2019Modern FamilyPaulEpisode: "Perfect Pairs"
2020AJ and the QueenOfficer Patrick KennedyRecurring role, 7 episodes

YearTitleArtist
2018"Brown Rice"Natti Vogel