Lila Irene Clerides


Lila-Irene Cleridou was the First Lady of Cyprus briefly in 1974 and again from 1993 until 2003 during the presidency of her husband, Glafcos Clerides.

Biography

Cleridou was born in Ahmedabad, British India. Her father, Dr Abraham Solomon Erulkar, was a prominent Indian Jewish medical doctor in Bombay, President of the Medical Council of India, and personal physician to Mahatma Gandhi. A supporter of Indian nationalism, Dr Erulkar was a close associate of both Gandhi and Khan Abdul Ghani Khan.
Cleridou was raised in the Gujarati port city of Surat, as well as Bombay. She lived and studied in Bombay until she moved to London when she was 11 years old. Erulkar studied speech at the Royal Academy of Music and became a professional actress.
Towards the end of World War II, Cleridou was hired by the BBC World Service in London, where she worked with novelist George Orwell. While working in London, she met her future husband, Cypriot Glafcos Clerides, a law student and gunner for the Royal Air Force, shortly after the end of the war. Clerides had visited BBC's headquarters to see his sister, Chrysanthe, who also worked at the broadcaster. Cleridou met him in the office while he waited to see Chrysanthe. The trio went out to the Vienna Café after work, and Cleridou and Clerides began dating shortly afterwards.
Cleridou once recalled that she went on her first date with Clerides because he was a "craggy youth who had just been released from a concentration camp". After a few dates, Clerides proposed marriage to Cleridou, who initially turned him down, telling him, "You were a prisoner of war and have seen no women, let’s wait a little". However, he persisted and she eventually accepted his proposal. Clerides sent a letter to her father in India to ask his permission to marry Lila. Dr. Erulkar replied to Clerides with a short telegram, but advised that the couple wait one year to marry, according to the account in Clerides' biography. The couple complied to the request.
After waiting one year, the couple married in a civil ceremony held in London in 1947. Cleridou converted to Greek Orthodox Christianity and chose "Irene" as her baptismal name. The couple had one daughter, Katherine, born in 1949, who would serve in the House of Representatives for the Democratic Rally party.
Cleridou became First Lady in 1993. Upon their elevation to President and First Lady, Archbishop Chrysostomos I of Cyprus, the head of the Church of Cyprus, suggested that Clerides and Cleridou have a church wedding, which they did in 1995 at the ages of 76 and 74 respectively.
In February 1997, Clerides and Cleridou undertook an official, six-day state visit to her native India, including Mumbai. During her tour, Cleridou explained that India's independence movement helped her understand Cyprus' move towards independence from the United Kingdom. She also spoke of her admiration for India, saying, "I love India. I love the people. I love its history. I was brought up as an Indian and I have to admit that my pride in India is noticed by everybody. I have not changed in that in one iota."
Cleridou suffered from deteriorating health during her later years. She was hospitalized for several weeks during the summer of 2007, but was discharged about one week before her death. Cleridou died at her family home in Meneou, just outside Larnaca, on June 6, 2007, at the age of 86. She was survived by her husband, who died in 2013, and daughter, Katherine. She was buried in a family plot in a cemetery in Nicosia.